TO STOP CHILD ABUSE !!!!

In this video shows that the little boy is crying but the father keeps scolding and abuse him. Even is the little boy done something wrong, the father should not abuse his children without any reason. And the mother does not come up to stop the father abuse the little boy. The video is around 8 minutes something, in the video father keeps battering the little boy and the little boy keeps crying as well. The third people inside the video keeps record the whole process.

This video are cause the human society to take serious again in this issues. Why the video that no one help the children, even the children keep crying the father keeps hit him and throw him in the sofa and hit again non-stop. For me, I cannot watch the video until end, because too cruel for children.

Are the children having any faults that parents or adult to abuse them? Children abuse is the way to teach them? No! There is no such way to teach children things when they done something wrong. That is unethical and not fair to the children in human society. Many cases about children abuse are happen in everywhere, every country.

According to Thesundaily.my reports that a four years old little Indian girl flees from home, because she is abused by her parents. The doctors that helping the little girl do body check, they were shocked to find the child's body bearing numerous old scars and fresh wounds. Through an interview by the “Police Sexual Crimes and Child Abuse Unit”, investigators learned that the girl had been hit with a hammer, spanner and pinched with pliers. That was a horrible and sad story from the little girl. Police keep searching her parents to get the truth.

What is child abuse?

Child abuse is a common phenomenon in human society. Child abuse is the most serious domestic violence act, because there is no ability to protect themselves victims of minors. Child abuse means those parents or other guardians of children deliberately and not accidentally or deliberately rather than violence to dereliction of duty to the child accidentally damage, injury or death behaviour. Can also be interpreted as broadly impose any harm on children behaviour.

These injuries directly affect the child's physical growth and mental development. Child abuse and some from within the family, multi-family poor marital relationship occurred, and some from outside the home, some of the mentally ill population. Abused children mainly for moral damage, low self-esteem, depression, despair, hostility, antisocial behaviour, mental disorders and suicide.

As the popularity of child abuse, currently no reliable global estimates. Many countries, especially low-and middle-income countries, there is no data in this regard. Preventive measures include public education, social intervention, training, and family functioning legislative intervention, in which legislation, law enforcement is the most important interventions currently. Only that some law can protect the children.

The reasons that the people want to abuse children:

The way that parents vent?

When the parents feel stress in their workplace, they will bring their emotion back to their home normally. But an unethical thing is that some parents will abuse children as reduce stress in their workplace. Even their children done some small mistake, they will scold and slap them. Parents should not be that to their children. It will affect the child's physical growth and mental development. They will have problem when they grow up such as low self-esteem, depression, despair, hostility, antisocial behaviour, mental disorders and suicide. And it will affect them while their communicate with others, they will feel low confidence as well.

The way of child’s education?

The way that parents educate their own children. If abuse them is educate them to guide them do right things. I am not agree with that, educate children can have many ways not only hit or slap them is the proper way. Child abuse is a global problem, and it gives children, caused by major trauma associated with his life.

The problem of the children or parents?

The attitude of parents also need to be correct as well. Reason is that children will follow their parent’s ways to live in future. Even children are abused they will memory those bad memory and use the same ways to their future child. Normally is not the problem of the children, cause children are represent back what their parents teach them. Children will start to think that they also want to reduce their stress from parents; they will start to beat up their classmate as the way to overcome their sadness and anger.   

Parents should control themselves, do not get the emotion or stress from workplace to home. Control themselves be calm to face any problem. Children are innocent and is a gift God has given them. To guide the parents lead their children through the years. Government can be a part as well to support the program. Need to adopt methods to prevent child abuse. Effective planning is the parents who support and teach positive parenting skills programs. Which are:

·  Nursing home visits for parents and children to provide support, education and information services

·  Usually provided by an active group parenting education, to improve parenting skills, increase knowledge about child development and to encourage the adoption of proactive management approach for children

·Take a multi-component interventions typically include support for parents and parenting education, pre-school and child care.

Prevention of child abuse programs. These programs are usually implement by schools, education of children to carry out the following:

·         Body autonomy

·         How to identify cases of abuse

·         How to say "no"

·         How a trusted adult to disclose abuse cases.

Through those programs can help the human society to reduce the case of child abuse in everywhere. Hope the parents will love their own children and do not hurt them, they are innocent. They have the right to enjoy in their beautiful childhood with parents. It will be a best memory in their life.

Let’s stop child abuse together!

Thesundaily.my. 2013. Abused four-year-old girl flees from home | theSundaily. [online] Available at: http://www.thesundaily.my/news/857564 [Accessed: 16 Oct 2013].